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FOGDad n (fôg, dæd) : Fine Old Gentleman (or F____ng Old Guy) Father: An old guy with kids, he can be a little cynical, i.e. he has heard it all before. He's rarely politically correct, usually sarcastic and occasionally gruff. He can be liberal or conservative, but is usually neither, although he is never "undecided". He respects those who disagree and demands the same; ** HE TAKES RESPONSIBILITY FOR, AND PRIDE IN, RAISING WONDERFUL YOUNG PEOPLE !!

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1/5/10
Speaking of the New Year and New Orleans: that was the worst football game I've ever witnessed and that's all I have to say about the game.  Actually, I have a lot to say about it, but #!@*$&%, I just don't want to talk about it.  The only good news is that I won't have to hear from, or about, Tim Tebow or Mardy Gilyard again.  The 2010 season started on Monday: GO BEARCATS.

12/21/09
The boys will only be home for a short while.  They will leave late in the afternoon of Christmas Day, in order to check in at 9:00AM on the 26th and head off to New Orleans.  I suppose that's a small price to pay for the honor of playing in such a prestigious bowl game.

UC has a new Head Football Coach.  They hired Butch Jones away from Central Michigan.  Everyone seems happy; except for the Central Michigan fans.  This is the second time we've poached their Coach.  Jones won't coach the boys in the Sugar Bowl.  That job will continue to be handled by Jeff Quinn, who is expected to be named Head Coach of the University of Buffalo.  Congratulations and best wishes to Coach Quinn.

12/12/09
We attended a wonderful banquet for the football team last Thursday.  It was held at the Westin Hotel in downtown Cincinnati. The media was out in full force to get any insight as to when Kelly would announce his plans relative to the Notre Dame job.  To his credit, Kelly made the banquet all about the team and it's seniors.  After the banquet, Kelly met with the team and announced his decision to accept the head coaching job at ND.  No one was surprised, but the boys were disappointed.  Too bad . . . get over it guys; you've got a big game on January 1st and it's time to get back to work.
The focus has shifted now to whom Kelly's successor will be.  The onus is on Athletic Director Mike Thomas, University President Gregory Williams and the University Trustees to find a coach that will assist them in continuing to develop the University of Cincinnati Bearcat football program into a perennial top ten contender.

12/09/09
We had one helluva game in Pittsburgh on Saturday.  It's a shame someone had to come away from that with a loss.  Pitt is such a great school and Coach Wannstedt is such a class guy, you had to feel for those Pitt boys at the end.  But, such is life.  Now it’s on to the Sugar Bowl against UC Alumnus Urban Meyer and his Florida Gators.

GO BEARCATS!!!

Rumors about Kelly are all over the net.  He told the boys on Monday that he would meet with, and listen to, Notre Dame.  CFN.Scout.com says it's a done deal; Kelly will be the new Irish Coach.  I suppose we'll see at the banquet on Thursday.  I'll say it again, if the University is committed to a winning football program that competes with the BCS elite, losing Kelly would just be a hiccup.

12/02/09
The boys won on Friday, against a tough Illinois team that is better than its record indicates.  This has set the stage for the showdown this Friday in Pittsburgh for the Big East Title.  While Pitt's loss to WV won't affect the title race, it just has to be a bit depressing.  Right now the pressure is on UC, but if the Cats jump on Pitt early that will change.  Pitt will be playing catch-up and worrying about "choking" again this year.  However, if Pitt is behind, don't expect them to fold.  I don't believe that will never happen with a Dave Wannstedt team.

11/14/09
The boys had another close one last night.  The West Virginia Mountaniers certainly did their homework and gave us quite a game.  There was an extremely controversial call on a touchdown.  The on field official had signaled a fumble recovery by WV when our runner tried to dive over the goal line from the three yard line.  After a video review, the officials changed the call to a touchdown, claiming the ball passed the goal line plane prior to the fumble.  Apparently this has caused quite a stir on ESPN; with the announcers claiming it was a bad call.  I haven't been home to review the game tape, but I have talked to three individuals who saw it.  Two of them say the officials were right in reversing the original call and awarding UC the TD.  My third source is adamant that it was not a TD.  This is going to add fuel to the fire and embolden the media talking heads, and some college football fans, who refuse to accept the idea that any school that is not one of the traditionally elite football programs has a legitimate claim to a major BCS bowl, much less the National Championship.  This is reminiscent of the Democrats crying foul because Bush won the election over Gore according to the rules and procedures in place at the time.
Oops!! I just mixed politics and football.  Spank my butt and call me Suzy.  My apologies to all and I vow to never do it again.

Again, Travis didn't play until the final onside kick, but signs indicate his attitude is improving.  I just found a YouTube video of him in a class.  He had an opportunity to get a little extra credit if he wore a costume to one of his classes.  A teammate offered him a Bill Clinton mask and Trav took advantage of it, dressing up in a suit and wandering around campus on his way to class as Slick Willie.  Apparently his Psychology professor is retiring soon and there were TV cameras in the class.  So the Travman was shocked when he walked into class and was told he would be on the evening news.  He winged his "my fellow Americans" speech and was shown dancing in the beginning of the video.  You can catch the YouTube version here.

11/11/09

Well, the Bearcats dodged a bullet with UConn visiting.  They won 47-45.  I thought that if a team racked up over 700 total on offense and scored 47 points, the game was not supposed to be close.  I haven't seen the recorded game, but I've been told by friends that the announcers had several  kind words to say about Jason.  Trav didn't play until the last kickoff.  After UConn's last score, it was apparent that they would try an onside kick, so Trav was put in up front.  He finally gets in when it counts and it's on a play where the only notable thing he could do is screw up.  But all went well.  From observing his demeanor on the sidelines, I think his attitude is changing and that's a good thing.

11/06/09
UC got past Syracuse and Bubba played after all.  I understand that one of the OL starters was out with fluid in his lungs and the coaches didn't want to have 2 back-ups in there.  I think that was a mistake.  All of the subs on the O line are very good and merely lack experience.  Jason played, but according to his own evaluation, it was the worst he's ever played.  He described it as being weak on his right side and basically blocking with just half of his body.  Apparently the muscles aren't weaker, it's just that the inflamed nerve doesn't transmit the correct signals from the brain.  As I've said before, from my perspective this is scary stuff.  I do think that the team would have been better served with Jason resting the last 2 weeks and ready to go this week.  Tomorrow the boys face UConn and then finish the schedule off with West Virginia and Illinios at home and then Pitt at Heinz Field.  We shall see.

Travis is still spinning his wheels and going nowhere and that's all that I'm gonna say about that.


10/30/09
I'm hanging in Syracuse, waiting for the game tomorrow.  UC is favored by 2 TDs and that's a scary thought.  They're not in that position very often and as we all know, upsets happen every week.  My oldest doesn't see trouble coming; he believes everyone’s head is in the right place.  I hope he's right.  He won't play much, if at all.  After suffering stingers in the last 2 games, the coaches are inclined to keep him on the bench.  He shouldn't be needed.  For those of you that have never heard of a "stinger", it is a condition that results from a hit to the head or shoulder, where the head or shoulder is in a unique position.  The hit pinches a nerve in the neck and the pain paralyzes the neck, arm and shoulder on the side that was hit.  From what I'm told it is a common injury and a lot of power players have to deal with it.  However, as a Dad, it scares the hell out of me.  A hit that paralyzes the side of your upper body; and coaches, trainers and players merely refer to it as "shit happens."  When it happened at South Florida it was at the end of the game and they just sat him.  He had some trouble that weekend, but seemed to recover.  Last week when it happened I was able to get down by the sideline where the Doc and trainers worked on him.  I felt like an idiot.  One trainer saw me and motioned to the Doc, who turned toward me and said it would be OK; they would do a MRI to be certain it was nothing but a stinger, but he should be fine.  Here I am, a simple old fart worrying about his 21-year-old, 300-pound man-child/warrior-beast, and there is absolutely nothing I can say or do. Jason looked at me and I asked, "Are you all right?" His face got contorted; he tilted his head to the side and sarcastically groaned, "Nooooooo", like I was a moron for asking such a stupid question.  And my brilliant reply was, "Oops."  In the future I think I'll wait until I'm invited before insert myself into those situations.

My youngest is bummin.  He hasn't played much since the first game and when he has gotten in, he hasn't done well.  Now he's depressed and as a result, is screwing up in practice.  You know the old saying, "you can't go much faster when you're goin down" (I think that was in an old Rock N Roll tune from the 60's or 70's).  Well, that sums up the current situation for Trav.  However, if he can get past this and get his confidence and focus back, he'll do fine; as well as grow stronger because of it.  I'm reminded of another truism that's appropriate in this situation: "a little adversity is good for the soul".

 10/24/09
The boys are rated 5 in the first BCS poll of the season and the talk of a shot at the NC game has intensified, both in print and over the airwaves.  Naturally I am one of the biggest fans of the Bearcats, however, they aren't ready to compete with clubs like Florida, Texas, Alabama, ect..  I do believe they can play with Ohio State, Boise State and the like.  I know they would play a better game against Virginia Tech. than they did last January.  The football program at UC has come a long way, but I don't think they're ready for to challenge the top teams in a given year.  The good news is they're not that far away from that level.  It's not inconceivable that they could be a legitimate contender for the National Championship next year.  In the meantime lets all enjoy this season.

10/13/09
I'm getting ready for the trip south to watch the UC Bearcats in their biggest challenge to date: Thursday night's game against South Florida.  I believe UC is a slight favorite, but South Florida is not a team to be taken lightly.  The Bearcats are in a rough spot; they're favored to win the rest of their games and that means all they can do is screw up.  They don't face anyone that they could upset, they just have to continue getting prepared and fight off the wolves.  But then again. that's what the good teams do, isn't it?

9/23/09
Whew, glad that the travel to the west coast is over.  Between the time change, redeye flights and delays, my system is screwed.  It'll take another day or two to recover.  But its worth it.  This football season is a once-in-a-lifetime thing for the boys and its exciting to experience it with them.  FYI, the Bearcats beat Oregon State and moved up to 14 in most polls.  There is even talk of a potential BCS National Championship bid.  I think that's a tad unrealistic, but UC could go to a BCS bowl again.  And if they run the table and follow that up with a bowl win they may be able to get another top ten team (besides Oklahoma) on next year's schedule.  If that happens then they control their own future with regards to a BCS National Championship bid.  As exciting as all of this is, we parents have a responsibility to keep the kids focused on the primary reason they're at the University of Cincinnati: E_D_U_C_A_T_I_O_N.

The school, as well as the Athletic program, is getting a lot of press, both in print and on the web.  College Football News and ESPN both carry Bearcat news.  If you want to read something a little more in depth, as well as local, I recommend the Cincinnati Enquirer.  They have a section devoted to UC sports.  Many thanks to Bill Koch for his story, "Kelce brothers key cogs for Bearcats".

WOW! The Bearcats spanked Rutgers; and Rutgers was a good team.  Jason had a helluva game.  The offense ran a 'sonic' tempo, which meant that they hustled to the line and the plays were called more rapidly than in the usual no-huddle scheme.  He was gassed the whole game, but still managed to hustle downfield on most plays, looking for someone else to hit.  Travis was only in for 5 plays.  He ran 3 times, gained 18 yards and scored 2 touchdowns.  We should all be that productive in our work.

Big Jason blocking for Lil Trav

9/6/09
Today I'm sitting in a hotel room in New Jersey, waiting for the big game tomorrow.  It's a big game because I will finally see both boys on the same team in the same game.  The fact that it's going to be televised nationally on ESPN is a bonus.  You know, you spend untold hours supporting your kids' endeavors, i.e. sports, music or whatever.  You pray that they learn the value of hard work and perseverance, the joys of comraderie and the satisfaction of accomplishment.  You know they're goin to fail, but also pray that they ultimately learn from those failures because a litle adversity is good for the soul.  You dream of your kids performing on a national stage and its a bit heady when it actually happens.  At the same time, you pray they aren't too terribly impressed with themselves.  Lots of emotion and excitement, as well as apprehension.

GO BEARCATS!!!!!

8/26/09
Although I've never been a fan of auto racing, I realize that NASCAR has a huge following. I try and avoid the argument that the drivers aren't athletes and that it isn't a real sport. To each their own. But I had to laugh when I saw a recent commercial featuring a NASCAR driver with his car emblazoned with the sponsor Extenz. It's not uncommon to see Viagra or Cialis commercials at halftime of NFL or NBA games, or between innings of MLB games. Those products are actual pharmaceuticals with proven results and they address legitimate medical concerns. And there may have been Extenz commercials during those contests, but there was never a direct connection to a specific team or the league. However, to drive a car with an advertisement for "male enhancement" pills prominently displayed across the car is entirely different . . . and a joke. Everyone knows these types of products don't work anymore than weight loss pills that claim to target specific areas of the body. The only parts of the body that can be targeted for growth are muscles and you can't take a pill for that either. These male enhancement products appeal to men with low self-esteem. The only thing enhanced are the companies bottom lines. I wonder if they are targeting NASCAR fans. Are NASCAR drivers or the men that follow the sport concerned with the size of their organs? Are female fans of NASCAR (and their are millions of hot chicks that follow that sport) focused on finding men with big guns?

7/26/09
And finally, it looks as though my oldest is truly prepared for the upcoming season. He's squating over 600 lbs., power cleans over 300 and last week he did 32 pull-ups. He's 295 lbs. and did 32 pull-ups. The kid's a beast.

3/16/09
With spring just around the corner, I thought I'd post a story I wrote last fall about college recruiting visits:
The college visit is a rite of passage and an event to be treasured; a road trip typically taken by one parent and the child, it is invariably a warm and exciting experience. Your baby is growing up and will be leaving home. The ride gives you the chance to discuss career options and plans, relate experiences from your own youth and just enjoy the changes that are happening to your kid. My boys played football and their school choices revolved around playing in college. In both instances the trips began in earnest in the spring.  continued here

11/10/08:
Wow, what a weekend! We enjoyed an exhilarating college football experience; complete with a rabid home team crowd, an equally enthusiastic visiting team group of fans and a game that was won in overtime and left both teams with a share of the conference lead. Whew!!

But, that’s the way the season has been, with one notable exception; the drubbing at Oklahoma. There is no fan base more fanatical than the Sooner crowd; that stadium is a hotbed of emotion. But, they were also extremely courteous, although it’s easy to be magnanimous when your team administers the whooping that Oklahoma put on UC.

This whole college football thing started with visiting colleges a few years ago.  I've written a short story about those visits and you can read it here.






"Most Pivotal Player on Offense-
I'm not going to take the easy was out and award this to Tony Pike. We all know the quarterback in any offense is the most essential player so I guess I'm really identifying the 2nd most pivotal player. Nevertheless, my pick is Jason Kelce. I know it is very unconventional to pick an offensive guard when you have a receiver like Mardy Gilyard and a left tackle like Jeff Linkenbach, but Kelce is just special. He seems to bring a toughness to the field and a determination to the huddle, and his teammates on both sides of the football seem to totally respect him. I think it's very important this kid stay healthy."
-September 1, 2009
Tim Adams
BearcatLair.com Senior Writer


Travis the WildCat??

After his brief, but productive appedarance in the Rutgers game, Travis has a Fantasy Football profile here.